| Wed, Mar 30 2011 08:47pm IST 1 |

Athelstone
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| Fri, Apr 1 2011 03:12pm IST 2 |

Debi
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The net is awash with this affair, which has gone viral. There are
many lessons to be learnt.
First and most obviously, how NOT to promote your book. The
original review to which she responded was actually quite good. Her
response was totally over the top and yes, at first it was very
funny. But then it rapidly started turning into something else,
which was disturbing and far from amusing.
As one blogger pointed out, she hasn't killed a child or kicked a
puppy and the only person she's really hurt is herself. Some of the
comments left after she'd bowed out are malicious and bullying IMO.
As for people who go to Amazon to leave reviews that say they
haven't (and wouldn't) read the book ... words fail me. What are
they getting out of that except the thrill of putting the boot in?
I know they say they're attempting to balance out the positive
reviews that are clearly from members of her own family, but do
they have nothing better to do with their time than to leap into a
mob attack on a woman who is clearly unhinged and in
meltdown?
So that's lesson number 2. When you put something out in
cyberspace, it will be there for ever. And it can attract unwelcome
attention from people just looking for someone to bully.
Final lesson is for people who self-publish. Be sure that your book
is edited and proofread before you launch it into the world!
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| Fri, Apr 1 2011 03:29pm IST 3 |

John Taylor
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I agree with you, Debi: this isn't straightforward, and the nature
of the web is one of the main issues. What's out there is out
there, and it can come back to haunt any of us.
As a quick illustration where no harm came, I recently went to a
meeting with someone I had never met. I read her biography on her
company website, and that put doubt into my mind: I wasn't sure
whether she was the right person to meet. It turned out that she
was the right person, and that the website was hopelessly out of
date. Her entry hadn't been updated in at least six years.
It's all out there...
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| Fri, Apr 1 2011 04:05pm IST 4 |

Debi
727 Posts
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Argh - my own website is in dire need of updating! It has all kinds
of info there that I'd prefer not to be in the public arena (eg re
my kids) and nothing about editing or even my last book. And it
says I'm still a photographer too. Please don't put me in the same
bracket as JH and what's happened to her - at least I've never
refused to accept legitimate criticism or bullied anyone. (Unless
you count shaking people like Sean by the lapels when they think
about giving up!)
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| Fri, Apr 1 2011 04:29pm IST 5 |

John Taylor
916 Posts
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That's what could be termed creative shaking, Debi. Shaking that
gets results.
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| Sat, Apr 9 2011 12:24pm IST 6 |

Kasubi
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When you put something out in cyberspace, it will be there
for ever.
Ugh, don't I know it.
Growing up I was always on FidoNet, then the Internet, and loved
getting involved in discussions - I still remember the wonder of
talking to someone in America online for the first time. It was a
big deal back then :) I think I'm the last generation to remember
that. My dad was always big on computers, and being dipsy-praxic I
think it actually saved me in a way - I substituted my inability to
handwrite and spell with touch-typing and a spellchecker :op
Aaanyway, I learned my lesson the hard way. I feel for this author.
I got caught in something similar. I was in a country that was
clamping down on the media at one point, and made a post on my blog
about the BBC being taken off air. It was a well-rounded account of
what was happening in-country. But it got hijacked by an
anti-government nutter who changed the wording and published it out
of context with my name and photo! the guy tracked down everything
else I'd ever done online and accused me of being part of an
anti-government group.
The group was a creative writing circle!
He just assumed that, due to the members, it was a political
campaign. He had no regard what so ever for my welfare in-country.
I knew people who had lost their visas for less. He just decided to
mash it all up and put his own spin on things from the safety of
his London flat. Dingbat.
It's easier than you'd think to get drawn into replying. He
eventually deleted all the correspondence but left the article.
Which was probably fortuitous. But every time you Google my
businesses you get this quite near the top of the rankings. Nothing
I can ever do about it - reason didn't work.
Anyway, that's why I value my anonymity. I enjoy participating
online and being free to indulge in discussions like this. But I
wouldn't promote myself in the same space. And my promo site and FB
page are administered without any personal touch. I teach PR and SN
promotion to organisations occasionally and there's so much I've
learned through brutal trial and error.
I know an agent who has a twitter account but doesn't always make
the distinction between personal posts and professional ones.
Doesn't sit easy with me. I think you really have to have two hats
- the 'me' hat and the 'business' hat. You're either one or the
other. Don't mix the two.
SN is still a relatively new thing. I just don't think people
realise what they're getting into a lot of the time. It's easy to
see the benefits, but harder to see the pitfalls until you're in
one.
As for critics - just remember the words of Liberace:
"What you said hurt me very much. I cried all the way to the bank."
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| Mon, May 9 2011 10:34am IST 7 |

TonyGetsLost
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Wow, this was awesome! Very funny. It made me think, though, about
all the attention she garnered with this strategy. It's too tragic
and eleven-year-old to be a cleverly devised campaign, but what a
blinder if it was! She must have had thousands of views with people
from all over the writing world recognizing her name. If there's no
such thing as bad publicity, she just did a Robert Downy Junior. I
wonder if she was telling the truth when she said she saw a spike
in sales around the time her abuse went viral? Maybe some people
bought the book to laugh at it?
For me though, the best part was the number of indie book
reviewers that chimed in. I've opened all their pages and are
adding them to my bookmarks, for the time when I might need a few
reviews doing...
Tony
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