Autobiographies - what you love & what you hate

Tue, May 19 2009 11:28am IST 1
Harry
Harry
315 Posts

I'm reading Infidel at the moment, an autobiog by the Somali-Dutch MP made famous when Theo Van Gogh, her collaborator in a film about Islam & women, was killed by a religious nut case.

Infidel is a stunning book. It's simply, levelly and lethally written. You learn more about the culture of tribal-Islamic Africa, more about Saudi Arabia, and more about Islam from this book than from any number of newspaper articles or news reports. The book also does something that I did in This Little Britain, which is to remind the reader with vigour and without apology how wonderful Western, liberal democracy is - what a stunningly wonderful system it is as compared with almost any other system anywhere ever.

And I have to say, I love autobiographies. I almost love em more than novels. They can be as incisive, but they're true. I love, for example Czeslaw Milosz's Native Realm, at the top end of things literary, but I was also very impressed by our WW client, John Fenton's, Please Don't Make Me Go. I loved West With the Night. I've loved all the crazy, rubbish little memoirs that I've pillaged for my historical fiction. I'm working on a manuscript now with a WW client that's also autobiographical, and also fab.

But what are your favourites? What other yummy autobiogs do I need to get my paws on? What have you read that you love? And what did you hate? Let all have a Heated Debate!

Tue, May 19 2009 03:06pm IST 2
Spangles
Spangles
722 Posts
Like you, Harry, I love autobiographies — and also biographies, and for exactly the same reasons. I've gone through highly enjoyable phases of reading nothing else. I used to belong to the Barbican public library in London which had a phenomenal biography section and I'd go home with armfuls of books.

So, which autobiogs are my favourites? Strangely enough, I realized that I probably read more biogs than autobiogs, so I could give you a long list of those but that's not what you asked for.

One of my favourite autobiogs could be classed as a forerunner of the dreaded celebrity memoir (it was published in the late 70s), but it's so beautifully written that I think it stands in a class of its own. It's Dirk Bogarde's A Postillion Struck by Lightning and describes his childhood. Part of the book is set around Alfriston, which is one of my favourite bits of East Sussex, and I still think of Dirk and his sister Elizabeth in her hat (which she called her 'hate') when I'm there.

Which leads me on to another beautifully written memoir about childhood — Laurie Lee's Cider with Rosie. As with Postillion, it's a book that has stayed with me ever since I first read it, and scenes from it are etched in my mind's eye, such as his description of being scared the first time he saw grass because he didn't know what it was, and the two old women who thrived on their hatred for one another. A literal thriving, as it turned out, because after the first one died the other went into a decline and shortly followed her into the grave.

Now I've started thinking about it, there are lots more to write about. But one autobiography that had a massive, quite dramatic impact on me when I first read it is High Diver by Michael Wishart. He was a painter (incredibly beautiful when young, judging by the photos, and then sadly seedy when old) who knew everyone from Lucien Freud to David Hockney to Francis Bacon, and he had the sort of rackety, fascinating life that had me feverishly turning the pages to find out what was going to happen next and with whom. He also described everything with a painter's eye, so I started to see the world around me in a completely different way. In one of those strange links, Michael Wishart's mother extremely lovely mother Lorna had been one of Laurie Lee's lovers.

You've got me thinking and remembering now, and I'm going to go away and make a list of other gems.
Tue, May 19 2009 04:23pm IST 3
EmmaD
EmmaD
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Alexandra Fuller's Don't Let's Go To The Dogs Tonight is extraordinarily good - a memoir of growing up in a white Rodesian farming family in the 70s, when it was getting more and more tense and embattled. Very subtly, she writes it always through the eyes - not the voice - of the age she is for any given bit, so you experience it as that child would have, picking up on the weirdness and the beauties as well as the fear and everything far, far more effectively than if you were in the hands of an adult storyteller.

Not really autobiography, but Joe Simpson (?)'s Touching the Void is stunning, though with my pickiest editor's hat on I'd say the writing is very much fit-for-purpose, but not truly memorable as the Fuller is at its best.

Mary Lee Settle's All the Brave Promises is a memoir of being a WRAF in the war: as a Yank who volunteered for ideological reasons she has a fascinating eye for that world, and it's very restrainedly moving about it. I gather her fiction's good, though I haven't read any.

Biog, not autobiog, but I've just read Judith Mackrell's biography of Lydia Lopokova, who was in the last generation of dancers trained in the Imperial Ballet School, became a mega-mega-mega star in American and then with the Ballets Russes, and then married Maynard Keynes, much to the rest of Bloomsbury's disgust. He was happily gay, and I'd always assumed it was a mariage blanche but not a bit of it: it's the most touching love match. Lovely vignette towards the end, when he's trying to rearrange the entire post-war world at the Bretton Woods conference, in between heart attacks, and she goes along with, largely to keep him alive. The suited and hatted diplomatic wives knock on her posh hotel door to take her along to some suitably decorous entertainment, and inside is Lydia, veteran of touring to the crummiest corners of the planet, thumping away at her daily practice, with strings of washing, and soup boiling ... Mackrell's amazing at conveying just what was so very special about her dancing - she's dance correspondent of, I think, The Times, and it really shows.

Wed, May 20 2009 07:43am IST 4
Spangles
Spangles
722 Posts
I love reading about the Bloomsburries and think I might order that book from the library.

One of my absolute favourite biographies — and if I ever write one myself it will be my shining example of how to do it — is Victoria Glendinning's Vita, about Vita Sackville-West. I've reread it several times and I can never put it down. It's beautifully written and it brings Vita completely to life, in all her guises from devoted wife to rather predatory lover, from abstracted and distant mother to fanatical gardener. We watch Vita dig huge holes for herself, metaphorically speaking, and we hear her voice in her letters and diaries. Victoria Glendinning never tells us what to think and never passes judgement on Vita's behaviour; she simply presents the evidence and lets us make up our own minds.
Wed, May 20 2009 09:28am IST 5
Pimlicokid
Pimlicokid
189 Posts
Arthur Miller's Timebends; not only beautifully written but honest and, for a mega-writer, humble.
At the other extreme my father once gave me a book of Monty's memoirs (Paths to Leadership?). No doubting the great man's military achievements but the lack of modesty made for poor autobiography. If there was an auto-hagiography category, that's where I'd file it.
Wed, May 20 2009 10:50am IST 6
EmmaD
EmmaD
1801 Posts
Monty wasn't exactly famous for being backwards in coming forwards, was he. One of the most fascinating books I've read in a long time is On The Psychology of Military Incompetence, by an ex-officer who became a psychoanalyst. Monty comes into it, as a particularly interesting case. All in all, the army were outraged, and tried to have the book suppressed.

The Miller sounds fascinating - yes, not a consciously starry man, at all.
Wed, May 20 2009 03:51pm IST 7
Jacquie
Jacquie
145 Posts
oh yes - I do so love both autobographies and biographies - what is it about them or us ? Does it perhaps suggest a latent tendancy towards voyeurism. Hmmmmmmmm...

Anyway, some of my favorites...
The flame trees of Thika by Elspeth Huxley. Such a beautiful book about her childhood in Kenya set sometime between the first WW and I think about 1925.
Then there's Churchill's - My Early Life. He was a wonderful writer Churchill and his description of his failure as a scholar but his success as a soldier and his early attempts as a very young politician takes one from Sandhurst to the Sudan and the Boer Wars. It was a delightful read.
Frank Mc Court's Angela's Ashes - so much has been said about this book but from my perspective it brought home shocking truths about poverty in the so-called first world - truths that I was hitherto unaware of . Despite it's 'happy' ending, it carried disturbing echo that lingered long after the book was finished; a shocking thought - if he had not been presented with that wonderful opportunity to steal money from the dead old lady - would Frank Mc Court still be destitute and unknown, shoeless, freezing cold, in dripping Ireland?How much raw talent is wasted out there - through lack of opportunity. I think about this very often...
Has anyone read Geoff Dyer's Yoga for people who can't be bothered to do it ? he writes brilliantly and this book - a travelogue comprised of a series of short stories - all come together at the end as a resolved work that describes his dependancy on recreational drugs, his mid-life crisis and a nervous breakdown. ... grim, I know, but a work of art , to my mind.
One auto-biography I really did NOT like - but read to the end nevertheless was Doris Lessing's Under my Skin. I jhave never read a book of hers again - although her debut novel The grass is singing is a remarkable work... She was everything an auto-biographer should NOT be to my mind - arrogant, self promoting, unrepentant for abandoning her very young family ( for no clear-cut reason), oh and did I say arrogant and self promoting ? Inexcusable.
Wed, May 20 2009 10:36pm IST 8
Lizzy
Lizzy
391 Posts
I love them too. Though I have to say I hated Angela's Ashes. I guess I just found it so relentless. Basically I enjoy reading about real people. Is this voyeurism? Nah I am doing anthropological research!
Sat, May 23 2009 05:21pm IST 9
Jacquie
Jacquie
145 Posts

Has any one read the autobiography of Lilianne Hellman ? I haven't but she was . apparently a notorious liar ! She was quite a rotter all round apparently so anything she says about herself could make for interesting reading when seen in the light of what other's have said about her.

The author mary McCarthy famously said of Hellman that "every word she writes is a lie, including 'and' and 'the'."
Hellman's response was to file a US$2,500,000 slander suit against McCarthy. McCarthy then produced evidence that Hellman had shaded the truth on many accounts of her life, including some of the information that later appeared in her book...
Just wondering if anyone's read it ?

Sun, May 24 2009 10:41am IST 10
Spangles
Spangles
722 Posts
I read her memoirs Pentimento and An Unfinished Woman an awfully long time ago. Dear God, I've just worked out how long ago it actually was and must now grope my way to a chair so this aged person can have a nice sit down. Anyway, I enjoyed them immensely but I don't know how true they were. Lillian Hellman did upset a lot of people, I know, and her left-wing political views stirred up plenty of dust at a time when America was in a collective twitch about the evils of Communism. wonder whether that has anything to do with the criticism levelled at her. Surely she isn't the only author to have varnished the truth and to have elided fact and fiction?

Thanks for reminding me about these books. I think I'll have to dig them out and reread them because, as far as I can remember, they are beautifully written regardless of whether they're fact or they more closely resemble fiction. Some of the scenes that she describes have stayed with me ever since I first read them thirty years ago.


Sun, May 24 2009 03:25pm IST 11
Jacquie
Jacquie
145 Posts
well there you go ! She obviously had some worth as a writer if she had this effect on a reader.
Sun, May 24 2009 06:16pm IST 12
Lizzy
Lizzy
391 Posts
Well I do wonder how many authors of autobiography and memoirs sail close to the wind as far as the truth is concerned. I have written a memoir myself and although I haven't lied there have been times when I have used a great deal of artistic licence! Often it is difficult to remember exactly what happened when and who said what, one has to use imagination and a bit of cheek!
Mon, May 25 2009 09:42am IST 13
Spangles
Spangles
722 Posts
Yes, memory does play tricks.

A classic case of Is-This-True? is David Niven, whose two wonderful volumes of autobiography (Bring on the Empty Horses and The Moon's a Balloon) were publishing sensations (deservedly so, I think) when they came out in the 70s and allegedly are a collection of stories that happened to his friends but which were very cleverly told as though they had happened to him. Does this matter? I don't know because I've never been able to stop laughing long enough to think about it.
Mon, May 25 2009 11:13am IST 14
Jacquie
Jacquie
145 Posts
Must make a note to try and get those two books - the Moon's A Balloon was highly acclaimed if I remember.
Yes , anyone who grew up with siblings should know haw very unreliable ( or at least very personal) one's memory can be. I have two sisters and it is very disconcerting ( or amusing, depending on your perspective) when we compare notes from our childhood and find out that what one of us remembers as a shining, life-changing moment the others either do not remember at all or have a completely different take on the situation ... which brings us to the question... what actually IS reality ? What is truth ? Indeed, indeed...
Mon, May 25 2009 02:06pm IST 15
PsychoPat
PsychoPat
102 Posts
Have to agree with Harry: Ayaan Hirsi Ali's "Infidel" is a stunning read and a real eye-opener.

I saw her on a US TV show where the interviewer basically sneered at Ayaan's unapologetic praise for Western democracy. She looked him straight in the eye and said (paraphrasing), "It's easy for you to spit on your own freedoms, when all you have ever known is comfort and privilege. If you had been born into the situation I was born into, and born female, you might understand what you have here and cherish it."

But the book isn't preachy; it's a stunning, tragic, human story of survival. VERY moving.

I loved Chaplin's autobiography, although it's heavily self-censored. Also Lauren Bacall's "By Myself", and not just because she signed it for me and let me make her laugh (no tickling involved). Also any of Truman Capote's autobiographical essays and short stories, all of which are gems.

On the whole, I prefer biographies to autobiographies--so long as they're not by that daft dead dickhead, Albert Goldman, the vulture of literature.
Mon, May 25 2009 02:16pm IST 16
PsychoPat
PsychoPat
102 Posts
Oh damn! I forgot to mention ALL

SPIKE MILLIGAN'S

WAR MEMOIRS!

"They blew me up during the war. The biggest mistake I ever made was coming back down again." Spike Milligan.
Mon, May 25 2009 02:49pm IST 17
Jacquie
Jacquie
145 Posts
Psycho Pat - did you watch the movie on Truman Capote ? Brilliant I thought. Must try to get his writings too...
Mon, May 25 2009 03:03pm IST 18
PsychoPat
PsychoPat
102 Posts
Hi Jacquie.

Yeah, I did see the movie. At least, I saw the one starring Philip Seymour Hoffman. Superb performance.

If you want to read Capote, I'm not sure where you should start, as it depends on taste. 'In Cold Blood' changed literature and even journalism; but 'Breakfast At Tiffany's' (especially when placed under the same cover as his shorts "A Diamond Guitar" and "A Christmas Memory"), is a great place to start.

Capote has a superbly descriptive, lyrical quality that matches Fitzgerald at his best. Very beautiful writing. Very moving when he wants to be. He's also scathing, bitchy, and always (0r nearly always), brutally honest. If you're interested in the latter qualities, his collected essays are for you.

Even now, we remain so close to the "celebrity" Capote that he remains underrated; although not nearly as underrated as he was some years back.
Mon, May 25 2009 03:13pm IST 19
Jacquie
Jacquie
145 Posts
Thanks for these pointers PP.
Mon, May 25 2009 03:30pm IST 20
Jacquie
Jacquie
145 Posts

There's a good review on Walter Kirn’s memoir, “Lost in the Meritocracy: The Undereducation of an Overachiever”

Can be found on
http://www.nytimes.com/2009/05/24/books/review/Miller-t.html?8bu&emc=bu

Sorry abnout the size od this writing. Dont know why or what to do about it.

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