Discipline in schools

Published by: Skylark on 3rd Sep 2011 | View all blogs by Skylark
Sorry for, yet again, going on about teaching but the blood is boiling this morning. It seems the media are, again, taking pleasure in another spot of the sport known as 'teacher-bashing'. This time, they are proclaiming to the world that schools are lacking discipline. Michael Gove says so, so it must be true. 

I wonder sometimes if I'm living in an alternative universe to the media. I have been a teacher for 11 years. I trained in Glasgow in four different schools covering the full range of very very deprived to really-quite-well-off. I then worked in rural Cambridgeshire (mixed backgrounds) for a few years before spending a year supply teaching in dozens of schools in a deprived area of County Durham. I now teach in another rural school in North Derbyshire (mixed backgrounds). So I feel that, in my 11 years, I have worked at a wide range of schools in different areas of the country and with a wide range of children. In that time, I could pick out 2 schools, out of dozens, that could have improved their discipline - though the discipline wasn't lacking, it was just inconsistent.

The children that come into my class sometimes lack manners, sometimes are rude, sometimes cause trouble, sometimes bully, sometimes lack respect for their elders...but they learn very quickly what is acceptable and unacceptable inside the walls of my classroom, and also within the boundaries of the school. What is interesting is observing the moment they are handed back to their parents at the end of the day. I have seen and heard some very interesting behaviour and have often stepped in to intervene when the parent in charge has turned a blind eye. And this is the crux of the matter. It doesn't matter how hard schools work on discipline - if the same standards are not set at home, it will always be a losing battle in the long term.

But, I am open to disagreement. Maybe I've just been lucky to work in schools with strong leadership and clear behaviour expectations. Maybe the vast majority of schools out there do lack discipline. But what I'm asking for is evidence, not hearsay from the media who are quoting an education minister who, quite frankly, hasn't the faintest idea of what teachers do every day in school.

So, in the interests of lowering my blood pressure a little, I thought I'd ask for some Cloud wisdom on this one - seeing as there are quite a range of people on here from all kinds of backgrounds.

Do the vast majority of you agree with the papers on this one? Do you believe that schools lack discipline? Have any of you spent time in schools recently and, if so, what have you observed? Good discipline, a lack of discipline?

Back to school next week - thinking of inviting Michael Gove to shadow me for a week....;-P

Comments

19 Comments

  • Noodledoodle
    by Noodledoodle 8 months ago
    Hi Skylark. From my own exprerience of having three children, two of primary school age, one preschooler and a husband working on shifts, discipline is tantamount. As far as the school is concerned my children are polite and well behaved and if I heard a report otherwise there would be hell to pay. This can't be said for all of the children at the school, but in general they are quite a nice bunch of kids. We are lucky, but if you look at the demographics, its probably not surprising.
    School does have a part to play in discipline - as you say, within the school walls, but if its not there in the first place where do you start? Teachers are not pseudo parents and shouldn't be treated as such by people who quite frankly, don't give a damn about their kids.
  • CJ
    by CJ 8 months ago
    Michael Gove... is he paid to hate teachers or something? I now know how my father (a fireman) felt about John Prescott all those years ago during the firefighter's strike! His attitude of 'anyone can do this job' really galls me... whilst I have no problem at all with ex-squaddies becoming teachers, please stop telling the press that they will make better teachers than the ones we already have. I must admit that I am also very wary of the Free School policy for this very reason - this all pervading attitude that teaching is essentially a piece of piss, we're all on the take and literally anyone can do it; it's poisonous, and is souring attitudes between schools and the communities in which we work. We often lament the fact that there are a lot of parents out there who don't back us up in cases of misbehaviour and subsequent discipline; is it any wonder, though, considering the government, aided and abetted by the press, tells these parents on a near day to day basis that we're a bunch of hopeless, unprofessional shysters?

    As it happens, my school isn't brilliant on the discipline front. I work in a secondary school, and the area in which it operates is considered to be an area of deprivation (although we get kids from all backgrounds attending). Saying that, I would guess 85% of the kids are absolute angels (if a bit cheeky on occasion), a further 10% are wannabes and are easily 'squashable' and the remaining 5% are the hardcore nutcases that are present in every school. It's this 5% that we don't deal with very well, but there is a reason for this - most of the hardcore 5% have appalling home lives, and whilst this is not an excuse, it is a reason, and it makes dealing with them quite fraught (usually social workers are involved). I see a distinct connection between dysfunction within families and poor behaviour at school, and I feel I should mention that a lot of our repeat offenders also have criminal records, which means this poor behaviour permeates every single aspect of their lives, NOT just in school.

    The thing that gets my goat is that the vast majority of kids - those who quietly get on with their schooling with little to no problem, only ever being told off in class for chatting or forgetting a piece of homework now and again - are conveniently forgotten when things like this are reported. My other issue is with things like the E-Bacc, and how the government and press go on and on about how kids are taking 'soft subjects' nowadays... uh, do you want to know why?! How about that these 'soft options' were dreamt up by the government and sold to us as a good way of gaining extra qualifications to boost the league tables? And that schools are terrified of slipping down the league tables, and so end up having no choice but to do all the things we are told off for doing: teaching to the test (we daren't let them fail!); letting them take 'easier' subjects (both the pupils and teachers fear failure (due to league table pressure) so much that a guaranteed 'C' in a softer subject is much better than a 'D' in a harder one); repeated attempts at coursework (did you read about that father who is trying to sue his son's school because they let him submit sub-par coursework? Add this to the all-encompassing League Table Pressure, and is it any wonder that we let kids have a second chance?!)... I could go on, but I think you get the picture. Most teachers on the front line - those dealing with this on a day to day basis - are the loudest when it comes to lamenting the lack of personal responsibility some pupils display towards their learning, but given the hoops we have to jump through, what choices do we have? We're damned if we do and damned if we don't!
  • Caducean Whisks
    by Caducean Whisks 8 months ago
    Skylark, I know little about such things nowadays and haven't read the papers, but my impression is that it's not the schools that lack discipline, it's our view of children in general. Teachers now appear hamstrung in disciplining kids, for fear of some parents who might not back them up.
    I also think that the majority of kids are decent, law-abiding and well brought-up. The view is skewed by the mouthy ones who find their way into the papers, along with their gobby parents.
    I'm sorry you feel so beleaguered - be very nice if teachers were thrown a few bouquets in amongst the brickbats.
    Deep breaths, m'dear, deep breaths. Then invite Michael Gove. He can only say 'no'!
  • Skylark
    by Skylark 8 months ago
    Noodles - I should clarify my remark about parents to say that the majority of parents are on our side and do back us up and have brought up their children properly. But then the children of those parents give us little or no trouble. It's the ones that we have to work hard with on the discipline side of things (the ones that we're apparently not disciplining) that more often than not the product of parents who let them get away with all sorts of unacceptable behaviour - and I'm not just talking about kids from deprived backgrounds either. Basic manners and respect are the two things most commonly missing from the parenting of children that give us grief.

    Ely - yes, I wonder if he had some dodgy teachers when he was a kid and this is his revenge? And the 5% will always be the ones making the headlines unfortunately. I don't envy you teaching secondary as our 5% are much easier to deal with at primary school. And to the rest - agree, agree, agree.

    CW - thanks, feeling calmer now. Yes, teachers do feel hamstrung to a certain extent but, in my experience, we've just got on with it and been lucky enough to have good headteachers who have backed us all the way when the parents kick off. But that's at primary level - can't comment on whether you get the same support at secondary. And yes, of course most of the kids are great. Just as most of the teachers are too! Off to write my letter of invitation ;-)
  • RichardB
    by RichardB 8 months ago
    Not really on the original topic (though I have lots of sympathy for you, Skylark: what the hell do politicians know about anythng?), but Ely has let a big bee out of my bonnet.

    Those bloody league tables! I could probably go on for several paragraphs and bore the pants off everybody, but let's just say that they must be the worst thing to have happened to education in this country in my lifetime.
  • Weens
    by Weens 8 months ago
    I must be getting old, if I was rude or answered back or was cheeky etc at school, I would get grounded to my bedroom with all my books taken away from me (the worst thing my parents could do to me).
  • Skylark
    by Skylark 8 months ago
    Urban - a pet hate of mine too. In fact I blogged about how unrepresentive SATS and league tables can be not that long ago. In our school, league tables are a joke as there are usually only about 10-15 children in each year group (small village school) so one child usually equals about 6-10% of the results. So we only need one kid to be having a off day on test-day and our overall results take a nose-dive...

    Weens, I know that there are many parents out there who still do that or similar. Only today, I was approached by two lovely children in the park (aged about 9/10) who said "excuse me" and then "please may we stroke you dog". Lovely manners. It's just that there are some parents out there who want to be their children's best friend and think that manners are old-fashioned.

    But going back to the point of the blog - apart from Ely's experience, is there anyone else out there who has experienced lack of discipline in schools or is the media just stirring again?
  • MinxieAD
    by MinxieAD 8 months ago
    In my opinion, politeness and how to treat others starts at home and as parents we have a duty to set our children guidelines. I'm really proud of my son, and I think he's the way he is because he knows how to conduct himself. I think if Mr Gove looked more closely, he would realise that the children who are out of control, rude and disruptive probably don't have that guidance in their lives. Yes, they can and do copy bad behaviour, but I believe a lot of it stems from family. Not necessary unloving parents, but maybe not strong parenting. I think there are exceptions to this, but on the whole, teachers have a difficult job trying to maintain standards. If those kids knew how to behave, they would.

    It's about time they realised teachers are there to educate our children for their future, not to teach them how to behave, that's what their family should be doing. It's about time teachers were able to go to work and concentrate purely on doing this.
  • Skylark
    by Skylark 8 months ago
    Yes, Minxie, I think parents certainly has more to do with lack of discipline than the teachers do. And I think if Mr Gove looked closely, he'd find that most, almost all, of behaviour inside the school grounds is significantly better than the behaviour on the streets or in the home.
  • CJ
    by CJ 8 months ago
    "And I think if Mr Gove looked closely, he'd find that most, almost all, of behaviour inside the school grounds is significantly better than the behaviour on the streets or in the home."

    This is *very* true, Skylark. The amount of times I have parents of nice kids saying 'well, I wish she'd behave the way she does with you at home!'. And then there are the times when I see kids I teach misbehaving on the streets - indulging in graffiti, being rude to random passers-by, drinking etc - they often try to hide themselves behind their mates, or if their mates start mouthing off to me, tell them to 'shut up, all right? That's my teacher, and I've got to see her on Monday...'. Half the time they are more worried about what I think about them than their parents (or so it seems!!).

    I've found it quite sad, but also in an odd way encouraging, how easy it can be to dissolve the difficult kids to tears. No shouting, no ultimatums, no threats - just by talking to them individually and letting them know how disappointed you are with their behaviour is often enough. Why is this encouraging? Because it means, once you get past the 'hard nut' exterior, these kids do care. I often come away from parents' evening feeling quite depressed, because there is always at least one parent who just sits there and swears at their daughter, telling her she's useless and rubbish... and then there are the parents who just don't bother turning up, and even if you ring them, they say quite blatantly that they aren't interested. I even had one kid's mum pretend I had the wrong number - silly bint; I'd spoken to her enough in the past to know her voice (being Scottish down here kind of sticks out a bit!!), and so I knew she was lying. I also double checked the number with her daughter (a pupil who I actually really like, but can be a real handful when she wants to be) and it was right. Okay, so maybe she's had a lot of phone calls about her kid... but sticking your head in the sand is not the way to deal with it! She even threatened to put her into foster care (which happens quite a lot - mum can't cope, so the kids go into care)... I mean, what kind of message is that giving to these children?
  • Amarantha
    by Amarantha 8 months ago
    Skylark, it's always bad news making the headlines so please don't be downhearted by reports in the media. Readers in general know very well that the problem children are very few and must be a nightmare for teachers with the responsibility for educating the many. Constant interference from politicians (National and Local) with no background in the profession and often educated in top private (selective) schools is counter-productive and they have much to answer for.

    Good behaviour is the responsibiltyof parents ... always ... but street behaviour has been mentioned here too and it's a pity our Police Service has shed all responsibility for keeping children in line when out with their peer groups.

    The vast majority do value teachers highly and the rants about lack of discipline in schools are directed at interfering politicians who tie your hands in so many ways and parents who let their children run wild. Your own rant is understandable. You have a difficult job to do and would do it much better in your own way if you had more backing from those holding the reins and the purse-strings.

    We do love you all really :-)
  • John Taylor
    by John Taylor 8 months ago
    Skylark, I've only just found this, and I'm in a hurry, so I'll read all the responses properly later. But one thing sticks in my mind from the schools round here. There is one junior school that has had a troubled time – and it's the one with the longest list of rules, but where there is less creativity, less children's pictures on the wall, less happy noise in the corridor, and less engagement with parents.

    I do think that discipline is ultimately about parents taking responsibility and providing a role model. But I also think that majoring on discipline in schools can have the opposite effect. I guess it's about balance – and ignoring political quick fixes.
  • Sisyphusa
    by Sisyphusa 8 months ago
    Nice blog Skylark, I enjoy hearing about how you are finding things on the "front-line" - a problem with politicians of all stripes is that they refuse to discuss things with the professionals who actually know what they're talking about. Interesting comments as well, I think John Onceupon makes a very valid point.

    I was still in secondary school (just) about ten years ago so have a fairly good recollection of it. It was a mixed comprehensive in inner-city London so it was possibly one of the more challenging teaching environments. It was a good school, very mixed in terms of ethnicity, culture, religion and socio-economic background which I think is a good thing for kids to be all together- learning from each other, clashing with each other (not physically, hopefully.)

    There were, as you'd expect, quite bad disciplinary problems. Lots of fighting, swearing, drugs and alcohol- I think a lot of people from my parents' generation would be really shocked by how quickly today's kids are growing up. I think that there are loads of very good teachers, some not so good teachers and some who are possibly in the wrong profession. But no matter how good you are the pressure and expectation on the role of the teacher in society is too much. The amount of baggage that we all have from our lives is one thing, but the amount so many kids bring with them to school every day and how it informs their conduct cannot be the sole responsibility of the classroom teacher. Teachers get pressure from above (targets, paperwork, management, headteachers, politicians) and below (kids being scamps, parents sometimes siding with their misbehaving child) and its no wonder that teaching is one of the most stressful jobs. Hospitals, schools and other public services across the country are having to work beyond their remit to deal with the fallout of long-term social problems (particularly income inequality in my opinion but I don't want to get into another political debate) that cannot be solved with simple directives or newspaper campaigns.

    For a nice example though of what great teachers can achieve: my grandpa taught most of his career in a poor area of Los Angeles called Watts (famed for rioting in the 60s when he was there) and the majority of his pupils gained high school diplomas and went on to college, many the first in their families to do so. My mum, not a career teacher but pianist among other things, decided to go help out in the learning development department of my old school and seven years later had set up a thriving creative writing department where kids from all backgrounds became passionate about writing and expressing themselves and were winning national writing competitions.

    It must be really frustrating, Skylark, all this teacher-bashing but I bet the individual moments you have when you see the effect you have on a kid's life is worth all the abstract, hearsay crap from the gutter press, isn't it?
  • Mcallan
    by Mcallan 8 months ago
    Hi Skylark. I totally agree with you. I will let Mrs Mac read this tonight when she comes in from school after another frustrating day!
    She has taught for over 25 years, and is known as the 'enforcer' in her school by the other staff. She has a way of looking at the children that makes them go silent. (It works on me too!) And I dare not mention Michael Gove if she is within earshot!
  • Ron Blanco
    by Ron Blanco 8 months ago
    If you’ve ever watched Michael Gove and his colleagues in the House of Commons during Prime Minister’s Questions then you’ll have witnessed unruly behaviour; I would say ‘childish’, but that would be an insult to children.

    Well done to Mr Gove for winning a scholarship to a public school, but unfortunately, in terms of life experience, it meant he became detached from the vast majority of the population at the age of eleven. And, sadly, his privileged route through life is increasingly the template for a political career.

    School can be pretty boring. Eleven years, every day the same, stuck in a class of thirty kids, sitting still, listening, trying to take it in. And yet after all this pain, some kids will seemingly have learnt nothing.

    Here’s a radical idea. Why not reduce the hours of learning and make class sizes smaller? That way we shift the emphasis from quantity to quality. And the rest of the time, as john says, let children do stuff that is creative or fun. Children will learn more and become happier, healthier people.
  • Skylark
    by Skylark 8 months ago
    Ely - coming up against the brick wall of parents who couldn't care less is very depressing. Everything you've just said though about the kids not wanting you to see them misbehaving just proves that, in your classroom at least, there is obvious boundaries and discipline.

    Ama, thanks for the support :-)

    John - that is so, so true. From some of the debate I've listened to, it seems that the people bemoaning the (alleged) lack of discipline are the ones crying out for the return of corporal punishment and other such draconian discipline methods. I say that I am managing quite well and have my children well under control without the need for those methods. Praising children who are doing what you ask of them and following the "Golden Rules" is far more effective on the children who are misbehaving than punishing those misbehaving. You say to a class "wasn't that kind of xx to do yy" and suddenly you have a whole class of children falling over themselves to do something kind so that they can be praised. Mind you, that's infants - keen to please! But yes, finding a balance between too soft and too strict and definitely ignoring anything that the politicians have to say - good plan.

    Sisyphusa - Some really interesting points and yes, totally worth it. It's the reason that I've not yet walked away from the job. Those lightbulb moments when a child gets something for the first time or watching two children sort their differences out without adult intervention as a result of the work we do on personal/social education or even just as simple as the children that come bouncing into the classroom each morning with smiles that light up the room. I'm very privileged to be able to have these experiences and should stop moaning about the annoying politics stuff!

    Mac - haha, I know that look! I've got quite an effective one too. Accidentally used it on hubby once...he wasn't too impressed ;-P

    Ron - yes, very true though it doesn't necessarily follow that public-educated means out of touch. I went to a private high school along with my brother and sister in the days of assisted places and I have (I think) remained connected to my roots. Love your idea - smaller class sizes would have the biggest impact, quite definitely, and yes, giving children time to do other extra-curricular activities would produce children who are more rounded individuals rather than a bunch of clones who are capable of passing tests but little else. But that's another subject altogether!

    Thanks everyone for commenting - some really interesting responses. Returning to the front line tomorrow....
  • Ron Blanco
    by Ron Blanco 8 months ago
    Skylark, I am glad you have remained connected to your roots. Having studied at private school and worked in state schools you are in a good position to compare the issues of each, but I doubt that Mr Gove has the same balanced view. We can't hide from the fact that, in terms of education, children do not have equal opportunities. It is also increasingly true that the make-up of today's cabinet MPs is heavily distorted towards those following the public school / oxbridge route. I think this is unhealthy, and contributes to the detachment felt by many in our society.

    The routine nature of state, secondary-school education seems to lead to children becoming a bit numbed by the whole experience. By having fewer lessons and smaller classes it would help children become more engaged with their lessons, and make it more likely they will get the personal attention they need. Do you think there is also scope for having some loosely-supervised play sessions at secondary school - an opportunity to play monopoly, read their book, build meccano, practice their instrument, etc - before they go home to shoot zombies on their computers?
  • Joanna
    by Joanna 8 months ago
    Skylark, I can't comment about the state of English schools as I haven't lived there foir nearly 20 years and we movved our children to French schools but you say you don't have any problems with discipline in your classes - i wonder if that is because you naturally inspire reespect in children. My daughter who was a nightmare to her teachers is now a supply teacher teaching English to 14 and 15 year olds and though she does go to some pretty rough schools she's just got the knack for controlling them and getting them to listen. She says though tthat in any class about 10% just shouldn't be there, they are getting nothing from education and should be allowed to go out and learn on the job instead of wasting their time at school and disturbing their clasmates.
    But questioning whether you should force kids who have no interest in learning to stay in education until they are 18 is opening another can of worms...
  • Skylark
    by Skylark 8 months ago
    Ron, yes, agree with your views on today's cabinet. As to the supervised play sessions, most schools run after school clubs - depending on the school this can range from sports to music to chess to book/drama....but as you rightly stated, there is a lot of inequality in education so the quality of these after school clubs will depend largely on the motivation of the staff at the school and the availability of resources.

    Joanna - yes, yes, yes! Get kids out of education that don't want to be there and get them into apprenticeships to learn trades that will set them up with jobs for life. Not a can of worms at all but plain common sense! As for natural respect - yes, maybe, but I think I also learned classroom management techniques that support any natural 'command' that I may have and that's where this whole argument started really because Michael Gove likes to perpetuate the myth that any person can walk off the street and have no trouble managing a class full of children. I say it is a learned and practised skill - whatever your natural ability is - and the vast majority of teachers are skilled professionals who manage classrooms on a daily basis with a good balance of discipline, encouragement and inspiration.
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