Giving people funny ideas

Published by: Spangles on 27th Mar 2009 | View all blogs by Spangles

I've come to the conclusion that we writers are rather strange. When viewed by the rest of the population, that is. I prefer to think it's the other way round and that civilians (as I regard non-writers) are the odd ones.

Isn’t it natural to enter a room of people and want to stand in the corner, watching them all and taking mental notes? Or when sitting in a restaurant to ask the person you’re with to stop talking because you’re so transfixed by the conversation taking place on the next table?

This can, of course, create the wrong impression. Civilians can think we writers are nosy (up to a point, Lord Copper) or standoffish (no, merely born  observers and often shy). A few years ago I decided to try writing a crime novel. So I began to think seriously about motives for murder. Living in a small village where I knew most of the neighbours and was privy to all the gossip, I heard all sorts of stories that triggered my imagination. Occasionally, when completely stunned by the fictional possibilities of what I was hearing, I would forget myself and blurt out something like ‘That sounds like a fantastic idea for a murder!’ or ‘Why hasn’t someone bumped her off?’ People would stare at me nervously, or remember they’d left something on the stove, and leg it. I’m sure they were very relieved when we moved away. They probably thought I was on the run from the police.

My attempts at writing crime didn’t work so now I’m having a go at chick lit. We’ve only been living in our new village for just over a year, and I’d like to live here for a good deal longer, so I can see I’ll have to be very careful about what I say when talking to neighbours. If I start mentioning the romantic possibilities in everything that happens, it could lead to all sorts of embarrassing misunderstandings. 

Comments

11 Comments

  • Aiyla
    by Aiyla 3 years ago
    I absolutely agree with you that we are the normal ones and the others are crazy. But it's true they look at us strangely.
  • Jacquie
    by Jacquie 3 years ago
    I love the topic here and the way you express yourself Spangles ! Yes we writers ( but I tend to include all artists - you know, creative folk...) are a breed apart and that's why a web site like this place is so delicious - to be in touch with like-minded souls all itching to create, all itching to communicate our ( and other's )inner worlds. To bring forth different perspectives ! Best of luck with your plots - reading the above you should have no problem with prose.
    J
  • PsychoPat
    by PsychoPat 3 years ago
    "It could lead to all sorts of embarrassing misunderstandings."

    Just don't tell them you're a writer or nobody will ever tell you anything again! Tell them you're a sex addict and they'll embrace you.

    (a girl once told me she was a sex addict and I embraced her immediately :-)
  • Chanty
    by Chanty 3 years ago
    LOL - Pat, that's so typical male... hee he Did she wear you out, mate?

    Spangles - this blog made me laugh it was so cute... we are different in manner ways, a great deal more observant I think. Can read people better, it's amazing what you discover about a person by just watching how they hold themselves and their body language... You can also most times pick up on weaknesses.... My father has a habit of doing that and can easily take advantage of people through their weakness....
  • Viveka
    by Viveka 3 years ago
    I completely agree: what else is a room full of people for if NOT to stand in the corner and observe?
  • Spangles
    by Spangles 3 years ago
    Thanks for all your lovely comments. I'd thought this blog was so covered with dust by now that no one would ever notice it, so it's great that it's been revived.

    Pat, I loved your joke!
  • Lizzy
    by Lizzy 3 years ago
    It's funny I don't really see myself as any different to anyone else. I suppose I am what my friends call almost pathologically friendly. I am an avid people watcher. I don't think this is because I am a writer specifically. Watching and understanding people was something I had to learn pretty quickly as a kid...my life depended upon it.

    I have always loved people though and am endlessly fascinated by them. This is reflected in the types of study (anthropology) I did and the types of work I am attracted to. I have worked mostly in mental health and community based projects where an affinity with people is essential. My work informs my writing I suppose. I don't believe I stand out as especially different or special because I am a writer if this makes sense. I am what I am. I never knew I could even write until three years ago.

    I am waffling so I will shut up now
  • Nibs
    by Nibs 3 years ago
    I've always thought myself incurably inquisitive, but my mother just used to call me nosy. And I thought I was the only one.
    Hahaha!!! go figure!!!!

    Nice to meet you Spangles
    Nibs
    :o)
  • Spangles
    by Spangles 3 years ago
    Nice to meet you too, Nibs.
  • Wrathnar the Unreasonable
    I think creative people are different cos that's where creativity comes from: having a different perspective is what gives us something to communicate. I guess I'm lucky to come from a relatively unusual background, and to have taken an unconventional path through life. I've met so many fascinating characters, and seen the world from so many different angles, it couldn't fail to inspire my writing. I don't actually write about my life as such, I prefer the alchemy of letting that stuff bubble up, transformed, into my fiction. In a way, I almost dread getting published, as people I know might recognise parts of themselves in my characters, distorted in sinister ways. Considering the way I write, they could be egregiously offended!
  • Spangles
    by Spangles 2 years ago
    'Egregiously' is such a wonderful word, Mr Wrath. I've known several people whose personalities are so quirky/weird/fascinating that they deserve to be put in a book, but not wholesale, of course. In fact, each of them has had such bizarre characteristics that I would have to water them down otherwise I'd be told that they weren't realistic.

    Years ago an acquaintance wrote a novel that was clearly based around her closest friends. When it was published, one of the friends - who was a friend of mine - was desperately upset to discover herself in the novel. And when I read the novel I could see her in there too, except that the character I thought was so blatantly her wasn't the character that she had identified. I also spotted someone in a walk-on part who I thought might be me…
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