How to get to 'that place'.
I know
from reading other people’s blogs and posts on this site that I
am by no means the only one who struggles with time issues in the
busy, busy world that is all of our lives.
I don’t know about you guys but, when writing, it can take
me a while to bring myself into ‘that place’ where a scene may be
set or into the mindset of a character at a given point. It’s so
hard after, say, watching a great comedy on TV to drag yourself
into the depths of despair in order to write a tear-jerking scene
or similarly, it’s difficult to write comedy after the day from
hell. It's doubly difficult when there are constant distractions
all around.
Do any of you have any tips on speedy ways to get yourself ‘there’? Personally, I don’t. I’ve given up.
I’ve tried sticking ‘do not disturb’ notices on the door but it makes not a jot of difference. After only two minutes, people still say ‘just popping through for a drink’ or ‘where’s the spare light bulb for the cooker hood’ or ‘can Lauren sleep over a week on Thursday’?
Ten minutes of peace, that’s all I ask, just ten minutes together, sans interruption. You may as well ask for the earth!
How do you cope?


11 Comments
This allows me to pick any point in the book that I am in the mood to write or inspired to write, and commit to writing that 100 words. I know this makes it sound a bit cold, but I rarely end up staying in these guidelines or word count. It let's me look at the project in chunks without being overwhelmed, and when I sit down to write the 100 words, I often end doing far more.
I cannot read when I am writing, I have to live and breathe my characters. Also family do not understand how totally absorbing writing can be, for example, if a character is fighting in France in 1798 that is where I am and I cannot suddenly jump back to the present - not without complaining anyway.
Bren
I don't watch TV and I don't read any other books. I write through the night when all others are asleep - it's quite and helps me focus - actually I'm at my best in those hours. I realize that this may not be possible for you.
But my story is really alive for me and well - I sleep, eat and drink it - it does not escape me. The first chapters I wrote are at the end of my book, then I went to the beginning and started writing. I think of things all the time, to the extent that I carry a pieces of paper and a pen around with me, have them on the sink in the bathroom when in the shower - it's bad. Depending on where I am in the book, I write out little notes, like a plan of what has to happen in that chapter to work to that, but alas don't always stick to it - it's merely a guide line. When I want a break from it - then I go and watch a movie. I play music sometimes when I write - mood music.
If you want to be sad to help you write something sad and feel the emotions, then watch a sad movie or listen to a sad song, anything that will bring on that emotion. Start with the part of your story that is most real to you at that time, most alive - that's perhaps a good place to start - what ever you see in your minds eye. Send everyone else out for a movie. Lock the study / bedroom door and write with earplugs in.
I've got to lock my cats out of the study sometimes, just to focus.
Just take your time and it will come to you.
Marion, you made me chuckle and I might well have tried the pot thing if it wasn’t for the fact that the other half is a solicitor and Deputy District Judge. He’s very proper, bless him. Mind you, I don’t think The Lord Chancellor would look too kindly on it either. An idea to bank for if hubby ever gets struck off perhaps?
Harry, I’m loving the random violence idea; though The Lord Chancellor and Social Services may not be overly keen on that either...Damn this is limiting. Knew I should have married Fingers Malone.
Bren, you are so right, family do not understand how totally absorbing writing can be. On the odd occasion where I have been able to transport myself to ‘that place’, I sometimes feel that the whole house could burn down around me and I’d still be sat there typing away at the keys. Singed, but typing.
Jackie and Chanty, like yourselves, I watch very little TV these days. When I do it’s mostly a busman’s holiday since that is the sphere which I’m looking to break in to.
Vin, snap. I too write on the backs of receipts, train tickets etc. I once squeezed a short scene on the back of a cinema ticket! However, I can’t recommend this as it’s a real bugger to make out the tiny writing when you get home.
Aiyla, I see you are night owl. I’m thinking that this may be the only solution. If you ever fancy a 3.00 a.m. chat? Oh hang on, that kind of defeats the object. Doh!
Barb, I like the idea of breaking the writing down into small chunks. Sounds right up my ‘organised’ street. Trouble is, I’m approaching the end of editing the second re-write so it’s really a case of sorting the wheat from the chaff now. I’ll reserve your idea for the next play.
Kenty, thank you. You’re so sweet. Though might I venture the suggestion that you may wish to re-think the cosmetic surgery?
Kim
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