Spock. RIP

Published by: Squidge on 4th Feb 2012 | View all blogs by Squidge
He was never the coolest kid on the block when we were at school. He was lanky, with sticky-out ears, and a head of curls so tight he reckoned he went to the poodle parlour to get a haircut. Everyone knew him as Spock, though I've no idea why.

When we were teenagers, he taught me how to dance to motown. The drainpipe trousers and skinny tie used to make him look even stringier...until he shrugged on the massive green parka and sat hunched on his Vespa. I remember being swamped in that coat one night when we walked back in the cold from wherever we'd been. 

He always tried hard at the school discos...though his efforts with the 'ladies' rarely paid off. But that was OK 'cos I never got the boy, so we often walked home together. It's supposed to be the boy who walks the girl back, but on one memorable occassion it was me who delivered him to his door; I still remember the look on his Dad's face at the sight of Spock, so blotto he could barely stand.

We were both into Scouting with other friends...and the international camp where I met my husband-to-be was the same one where Spock drove his Vespa round in circles inside the huge marquee. I remember laughing fit to burst from inside my sleeping bag 'cos everyone was sleeping in there on the last night.

After uni, we lost touch a bit. He went to agricultural college and worked in Germany for many years. Then he felt a calling...and spent time with missionaries, teaching Phillipino prisoners how to earn a living from the land.

Whilst in the Phillipines, Spock met his wife and discovered his true vocation. With the blessing of his sending church, he set up a model farm, showcasing animal husbandry and increased yields of rice through organic farming. He was enthusiastic and committed to the cause, teaching his methods to trainees who arrived from many third world countries. 

I was so proud of what he'd achieved and was still planning to do...but I never got the chance to tell him.

He died last weekend.

RIP Spock. 

Comments

15 Comments

  • AlanP
    by AlanP 3 months ago
    It's always later than you think.
  • Squidge
    by Squidge 3 months ago
    I know...
  • Skylark
    by Skylark 3 months ago
    What a lovely tribute, Squidge. I bet he would be pleased to know how much in your thoughts he is. xxx
  • Gerilyn
    by Gerilyn 3 months ago
    Ah, a very poignant blog. Life is just a breath of air isn't it?. x
  • Caducean Whisks
    by Caducean Whisks 3 months ago
    Very touching, Squidge. I can feel your sense of loss. We just never know, do we - when our time's up. He sounds like a good man. Sorry he's gone.
  • John Taylor
    by John Taylor 3 months ago
    Stay proud of your friend for what he achieved and remember him, and don't worry about what you didn't get a chance to say, Squidge. People's achievement is absolute, it has happened. You can and have told us in his memory. And thank you for sharing those tender memories. xxx
  • CJ
    by CJ 3 months ago
    It's these kind of things that make you stop and take stock. A lovely tribute, Squidge - thank you for sharing. xxx
  • Squidge
    by Squidge 3 months ago
    Whisks - yes, he was a good man and John - I'm praying hard that his wife will find the strength to carry on with the farm. Glad that in a small way you've all been touched by what Spock meant to me... Thanks everyone - your support is really appreciated.
  • Kate7
    by Kate7 3 months ago
    That was a really nice tribute, I'm sorry to hear of your friends passing. Thank you for sharing.
  • Tony
    by Tony 3 months ago
    He sounds like one of the good guys. Thanks for sharing this, Squidge. I pray, too, that his wife may find some comfort in continuing what he started with the farm.
    [Do you really not know why he was called Spock? With his sticky-out eras? :-) ]
  • Liss
    by Liss 3 months ago
    Sorry to hear this, he sounded like a great guy and it's nice he is in your thoughts :) I'm sure he appreciates it x
  • Squidge
    by Squidge 3 months ago
    Tony - I know, I thought of that, but no reference was ever, ever made to his ears in all the years I knew him!
  • Autumn
    by Autumn 3 months ago
    Aw what a lovely tribute. A guy with a good heart - I'd guess he liked Star Trek. xxx
  • Stormbride
    by Stormbride 3 months ago
    He definitely seems like he was one of the concerned people. Although I'm not that religious I like to think that the place we go to after this world is alot better. I think he's smiling at you from the beyond for this. ;)
  • Old Fat Prop
    by Old Fat Prop 2 months ago
    Missed this first time round...

    A nice tribute. I know the PI quite well and I think I know the prison where he may have worked.

    I am sorry for your loss but I am pleased to read that your memories are happy ones...

    A fitting tribute. How many people will be remembered with smiles?


    OFP
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